In The Board Room

July 3, 2025

There is a lot of pressure these days on high school students to have their future plans solidified by their junior or senior year. People begin to ask, “So what are your plans after high school?” You may hear many responses like, taking a gap year, trade school, taking over the family farm, helping with the family business, internship, apprentice program or even college—near or far!

My kids all decided on college as their next step after high school. They took opportunities their senior year to visit a few college campuses, mostly out of state, to help make their decision. Our youngest daughter looked at colleges in Colorado, Texas, Oklahoma, and one last minute add on in sunny California.

This college happened to sit next to Sunset Cliffs. The school was breathtaking and right on the ocean. We toured the small but beautiful campus and took the tour up and down the hilly streets. We entered one of the freshman dorms as we continued listening to the tour guide explain life as a student on campus. She took us in and out of rooms, through the laundry facility, past the kitchenette and stopped at the end of the hall to show us the highly acclaimed boardroom. She was so excited for us to see it. My husband’s ears perked up. He’s a businessman, so it caught his attention. We had never heard of a college campus that had a boardroom in the dorms! He turned around to us and said something along the lines of: “Now this school is serious! I like this.”

We entered the room. It was not what we had thought. In fact, quite the opposite. This was not the traditional boardroom with a board table like we were thinking. It was not a location where meetings were held or big decisions were being made. This boardroom was where surfboards and wet suits were kept for the surfers in the dorm.

We probably quickly revealed our ignorance and the fact that we were coming from a landlocked state. We didn’t have surfboards; we had snow skis! This was a whole new world for us. Suddenly, my husband’s boardroom excitement turned to confusion and then concern. I could almost see two words in his mind: party school.

My daughter was surprised and excited simultaneously. Oh, the dichotomy between their hearts and minds. I think my husband was checking this school off his list, while my daughter moved it to the top of hers!

All I could do was pray for God’s leading and guidance. I asked the Lord to place her exactly where He wanted her for this next season. I prayed for her dreams, friends, professors, classes, leadership, roommates, suitemates, experiences, church, and the location.

As we walked the campus, I prayed. I felt an overwhelming peace in my spirit and the presence of God on that campus. Though the school was so far away, I knew this was the school for her.

I left the prospective student tour with a feeling that she was being drawn to the saltwater, but she would find God, the Living water! She ended up studying at that university and graduating four years later with many God-Stories throughout her time there.

What if we would have made the decision on feelings, circumstances, or proximity? We would most likely not have encouraged she attend that school.

After praying and seeking God, we could rest in God’s peace, wisdom, discernment and trust that He would lead her every step of the way.

Psalm 37:23 says, The steps of a man are established by the Lord, when he delights in his way…” (ESV).

Proverbs 14:15 says,The simple believes everything, but the prudent gives thought to his steps (ESV).

Proverbs 3:5-6 says, Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths” (ESV).

Are there confusing boardroom situations in your life? Maybe there are situations you are facing that are much different than you expected? Are you trying to lean on your own understanding and figure it out on your own—surfing and fumbling through confusion? Are you struggling to know God’s direction and next steps? What are you going to do about it?

Pray to the Lord for His confirmation and affirmations. He will lead you! Trust in the Lord with all your heart!

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